The Begining

OKAY, OKAY, OKAY:

I can't stand it any longer. I opened this blog two years ago, for some long forgotten reason, although

it is tempting to make up a story that you might like about why it has taken me this amount of time

to begin this; blog,adventure,communication,activity, endeavor ...........or whatever anyone cares to

call it.

Somewhere around NOW, I have been getting this internal voice, thought, idea, notion, message,

that sound something like. WRITE THE FUCKING BLOG ALREADY.

So, OKAY, I am tired of hearing it, (not that I have any idea that it will stop because I now am writing.

I have spent many years of my 66 years on the planet, don't get caught up on the 66, its just a number I use to let people know that "I've been around you know"; telling, teaching, lecturing, coaching, people that there is nothing to say.

Another way I use to speak to you about this is. I have been telling people nothing, because I believe "in my heart" it is really what there is to talk about.

I had to accept that I had nothing to say, before I could begin saying nothing.

Now I am going to say nothing until nothing is said. And I say: that once nothing is said

there will be nothing to say.

That sums up all that I have to say, so this may be a very short lived " blog".

OK. I'll say more nothing.

I named this site Trust Love and Relate, 2 years ago. and when I sat down today to begin writing I had to BE WITH the name to see what the hell it means to me.

And, I am comfortable that it does communicate what I am saying.

I do ask that you consider that when I am talking about LOVE, I am talking about it from my conversation about nothing.

The power of NOTHING is that there is no add on to what is, or what isn't.

If you and I are relating and what I maintain as the standard, ideal or measurement of my love for you is NOTHING. than I can fully and unconditionally accept everything.

Love, (be careful, you are better off not being attached to any definition to this, including mine),

is at it's most powerful(blah blah blah) when I accept myself and others exactly as i percieve them.

that includes what is occurring and what isn't occurring.

What this takes is a granting, or a giving of permission, or a generosity, or an allowing.

I give you permission to be exactly how you are.

My mantra is:

People do what they do, the don't do what they don't do. they say what they say, and they don't say what they don't say.

I can count on this; and when I add NOTHING to it, I can be Present to Love.

Here are some of my :"MENTORS" Opinions.

"Love is granting another the space to be the way they are and the way they aren't so they can change if they want to and they don't have to." ...

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Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, But bears it out even to the edge of doom," Shakespeare

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Intense love does not measure, it just gives.

Mother Teresa

It is a beautiful trait in the lover's character, that they think no evil of the object loved.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Do all things with love.
Og Mandino

I have to stop this now to move my body to another comittment.'

I wish you love beyond ALL understanding.